The Relational Rhythms™ Assessment + Guide
You already know something is off.
This assessment helps you finally understand what it is — and what to do about it.
Most couples wait until they're in crisis to get support. The Relational Rhythms Assessment helps you understand where you are before it gets that far." — Jason & Shelly Yost, New Rhythm Marriage
You're not struggling. You're in the wrong season.
Most couples don't struggle because they stopped loving each other.
They struggle because they're in the wrong season — and they don't have a name for what they're feeling.
The Relational Rhythms Assessment changes that.
In less than 10 minutes you'll know exactly what season your relationship is in, what's driving the patterns beneath the surface, and the specific rhythm that creates real movement forward.
No blame. No shame. Just clarity — and a clear next step.
Here's what's included:
36-question assessment designed around 6 core relational domains
Instant season result — Healing, Distance, Stretching, or Steadiness
The Relational Rhythms™ Guide PDF — your personalized roadmap
Season-specific email support with reflection prompts and micro practices
A clear, compassionate next step — whatever season you're in
Each partner can take it individually. You don't have to do this together to get value from it.
Jason &
Shelly
We built this because we wished it existed.
We're Jason and Shelly — marriage coaches and a couple who has been through real seasons together.
Infertility. Career transitions. Moves across the country. Years that didn't feel like seasons at the time — they just felt like reality.
What we kept coming back to was this: we didn't need more effort. We needed a new rhythm.
But before you can find the right rhythm — you have to know what season you're in.
That's why we built the Relational Rhythms Assessment. Not to fix your marriage. Not to add more to your plate. Just to give you a clear, compassionate way of seeing where you are — so you know exactly where to start.
$27
Instant access. Takes 8-10 minutes
The Relational Rhythms™ Assessment + Guide
Is It Worth It?
We think $27 is one of the smallest investments you can make in your marriage — and one of the most clarifying.
Most couples spend more than that on a dinner out. This gives you something a dinner out can't — a clear picture of where you are and a specific path forward.
And if you're the one in your relationship who noticed something was off and decided to do something about it?
That took courage. This is a worthy next step.
FAQ
Does my partner have to take it too?
No. One partner taking it is enough. Each of you can take it separately — the guide even has a section for couples who land in different seasons.
What if we're doing pretty well right now?
That's actually the best time. Couples who tend to what's working before it drifts never have to rebuild.
How long does it take?
About 8-10 minutes. Results delivered immediately.
What happens after I pay?
You'll be redirected straight to the assessment. Your season result, guide, and email sequence begin immediately after submission.
Here's what others are saying
"I’ve read relationship books before, but this felt different. The assessment didn’t label us as “good” or “bad.” It named our season in a way that felt compassionate and accurate. When we saw we were in a Stretching season, it made sense — we weren’t disconnected, we were overwhelmed.
The rhythm that followed gave us something practical to try right away. It helped me realize that the tension I was feeling wasn’t about lack of love, but about unspoken stress and misalignment. Having language for it changed everything. It felt like clarity instead of criticism."
Terri MADDEN
"I wasn’t sure what to expect when we took the assessment. I thought it would just confirm what I already knew — that we were “fine but busy.” What surprised me was how accurately it named our season. We landed in Distance, and the language around reconnecting instead of reacting hit home for me.
It gave me something concrete to work on instead of just feeling frustrated. The idea of small, consistent rhythms felt doable. We started with the five-minute check-in practice, and honestly, that alone shifted the tone in our home. It felt less like we were circling problems and more like we were moving toward each other again."
Jake Reilly
Your marriage isn't broken.
It might just be in the wrong season.
For $27 you'll know exactly where you are — and exactly where to start.